Ikeuchi Hiromi;

His wife found out about him cheating, in her rage she chased him which lead to Tiger Woods getting into a car crash. The women he were cheating with started to expose to the public about their affairs.

The news is getting heated up especially because Tiger Woods is a professional golf player whom had a image of the ideal father without any scandals.

There are no differences between any ethnic backgrounds, if a partner finds out about cheating an argument is bond to happen. It’s not unusual for the person who he/she cheated with to speak out about their secrets. In Japan, the Prime Minister was exposed of cheating was disgraced by his actions. Also in America, Mr. Bill Clinton nearly got disgraced by an exposure of his ‘relationship that was not appropriate’.

When a husband is in a difficult situation because of him cheating, the wife is the only one who can save him.

When Mr. Bill Clinton was accused by media, his wife Mrs. Hillary Clinton said;

“I do believe that this is a battle. I mean, look at the very people who are involved in this — they have popped up in other settings. This is — the great story here for anybody willing to find it and write about it and explain it is this vast right-wing conspiracy that has been conspiring against my husband since the day he announced for president.” (NBC, The Today Show interview, 1998)

‘Conspiring’ might be an over exaggeration but since then, the news has died down.

The women, who Mr. Tiger Woods cheated on, might speak out more to the media of their ’secret campaigns’. When that happens, his wife Mrs. Elin Woods is the only one who can save him.

Mr. Tiger Woods should not speak anything anymore. Even if he get asked to comment by media, he should only say “I love my wife and children” and nothing more. Because unfortunately, anything he talks will just sound like an excuse.

If Mrs. Elin Woods is thinking to divorce, I would leave it to the lawyers in Colorado state. But if they are not divorcing, a solution speech is below. this speech might not be able to stop the women talking about their secrets, but could stop the media heating up and Mr. and Mrs. Woods have to protect their children.

‘That was a terrible argument between us. But when I thought I was going to lose him, no way! I love him and I love him as the father of my children. I do not want to take away his talent in golf player by divorcing. I cannot forgive the speech that harmed my children by the women, but I have talked properly with my husband and decided to forgive him.’

What I am trying to say here is the wife should protect him by saying; while the wife forgave him there is no business for the public, and do not accuse him anymore. Of course, ‘talking properly’ is important but should not be seen by public.

‘Talking properly’ could not be by only two of them but could involve therapist or a marriage counsellor. not only about this situation cheating, but also looking back to various things happening between them, and talk about how to fix the relationship. Also, therapist could be needed to take care of children who is getting effected by the media reports.

By media reports, they are already talking with a therapist so their situation should not be facing to divorcing at this moment. Because if they are thinking of divorcing, they would be seeing different therapists and having care of individuals.

From now on, even if they will live separately, we cannot determine the divorcing as long as they have the same therapist.

In America, if ether of husband or wife is facing to the decision of divorce, lawyer will immediately get involve. And we can assume that high class people like Mr. Tiger Woods should have had an agreement of settling properties when divorce happens, before their marriage. (The awareness of agreements on marriage is completely different from Japan.) Involving of lawyer will be a countdown to their divorce but they will consider the right time in terms of effects on public and their children.

However, there are no differences of if you are in America or in Japan, if any of husbands are going to cheat on your wife, please do not choose a ‘talkative’ woman. No matter on how beautiful the woman is, a woman who sells voice mail is not elegant. Be aware.